A Family Finds Its Way Back with NewBridge’s Support

Debbie sends a photo of her son and grandchildren to NewBridge’s Child and Family Services each year as a thank you for helping him become a better parent and regain custody of his son and daughter.

“They were really committed to getting the family back together,” said Debbie, who fostered her son’s older two children for 13 months about five years ago.

During that time, Anthony only saw his children at supervised visits and family counseling sessions. First resentful, Anthony said he came to embrace therapy. “It was very good for me. I learned to be more patient, to take time and listen, and to accept help when I need it,” the 34-year-old said.

Early on, his son, then age 5, called Anthony The Hulk, after the rage-powered superhero. “At first I thought he called me that because he saw me as strong, but then I understood he was a little afraid of me: I’d always had a bad temper,” Anthony said. As they progressed in therapy, Anthony Jr. “started calling me Superman,” Anthony said. “That really felt good.” The counseling also helped strengthen Anthony’s relationship with his mom, they both said.

Anthony is now engaged and a father of four. He bought a home for his family and owns a landscaping business. He coaches Anthony Jr.’s football and baseball teams. While the children were in foster care, Anthony wrote songs to cope with his feelings. Now he and his 9-year-old daughter, Mia, write poetry together.

“I’m so proud of him!” Debbie said. “Five years ago, I never thought he would be doing all these things with them,” she said. “There are so many moments to cherish.”